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May JOY cascade into your life in the every day little events you experience and bring with them a feeling of being ENGULFED in JOY!

Sunday, 24 November 2013

Hard Work and Family Togetherness

As a parent I am always amazed at the amount we can get done on a work project when we all determine to tackle a project! It is an amazing miracle of sorts!!!

The front yard has been an ongoing renovation project for seemingly a couple of years now. The perennial sweet peas have taken over the area and are determined to win... but of course I am just as determined so we'll see who comes out on top! Anyway, with the redoing of the landscaping, a lot of flower bulbs have had to be moved as well as dirt. New bushes have been put in and this summer we collected some old carpet which provided us with an excellent moisture barrier for the project! Carpet holds in moisture almost miraculously and things grow SO well!!! Anyway, when I finally declared that I had moved enough plants from the old flower beds Myles got out the rototiller.  Weeds were mowed and then tilled into the ground. Carpet was placed around the new bushes and recently transplanted perennial flowers to provide protection from the drying heat of the summer sun. The overall effect was stunning, though still very incomplete. It looked SO GOOD to have all those overgrown plants gone with freshly tilled soil in their place!!! What a difference.






Of course you can see from the pictures that we still have a fair ways to go. There is grass to plant, a flagstone path to pour and we still need a little more dirt to bring up the level of the lawn high enough but it is so exciting to get such a big part done all at once!

Sometimes there are places in the yard that just have to be done over. In the process of redoing this flower bed, and this year also getting the stucco on the front of the house complete we have been able to landscape the area up against the house for the first time EVER!!! We emptied all the loose bark from the woodshed and used it in our landscaping. So, this project has cleaned out the woodshed, the old flower garden AND the flower gardens up against the house! The changes are fabulous and exciting.

I often think of life as a school for the family. A time where we are given opportunities to create a family that is close and loving. Where we embrace goodness, kindness, love and all the attributes of God together and work on becoming better people. It is always more fun to do things with others rather than alone - that is the blessing of families. However, there are so many distractions these days that take us out of our homes and away from that divine focus. While in moderation these things are good, if they become an obsession, they become like the overgrown plants that actually became weeds to me in my garden. They must be pulled out - completely, not just cut off where they will likely grow again. Obsessions are not healthy for the family. They prevent family members from working together, speaking and serving with kindness and patience. I love how our work projects strengthen us as a family. Everything I do is with my family members in mind. They are such a blessing to me. God has been so good to me in giving me eight of the most beautiful, caring and loving children, a spouse who is devoted to his family and his Heavenly Father, as well as parents and siblings that have all added to my sense of peace and well being. What a joy it is to be so blessed.

A Night of Fun

This summer we had some beautiful evenings, and with us all home, there was no point in trying to resist the urge to spend some time together playing outside.

Since I am currently serving as the Cub Leader, I come across a whole pile of energy burning games that kids enjoy playing. We lit the fire in the fire pit  and I enjoyed the comforts of a fire while the kids played a magical game of 'Magicians Hat'! The game is basically tag and the only home free space is between the two chairs. Of course you are only home free until someone comes behind you and takes up refuge in the "hat" bumping you back out in the the heart thumping game of tag. We all enjoyed the game, even those who took the positions of spectator!



What a fun way to spend an evening. After everyone was played out we put our magicians hat away and just enjoyed spending time together visiting around the fire. What a delightful evening.

There is so much in life that I enjoy. I must admit that spending time with my children, playing games with them and doing things together as a family rank among my highest and most precious moments. I couldn't help but think back on some of the fun times I had growing up. We sure did play some fun games. I think out of all my childhood memories, the game that I enjoyed the most was simply going out onto the lawn in the evening after the work was done and playing tag in of her variety of ways with my siblings. Somethings never change. I still love to go out on the lawn in the evenings and enjoy that last moment of Summer sun with my family. But joy there is in children. I am such a blessed mother.




Wednesday, 13 November 2013

Joy Bubbles

Today I was working on a Christmas gift and needed a few quotes... I love quotes! In fact I could probably spend the whole day reading them, but then I wouldn't get anything done! Anyway, I came across a blog that describes some of my own feelings so well. The author captures it is the phrase 'JOY BUBBLES.' I love it. This is what she says...
The phrase Joy Bubbles came to me one day at work in what could only have been a flash of divine intervention. Since then, I can’t forget it. I think of it in terms of a noun (as in a bubble of joy) and as a verb/action (joy that bubbles up).  Either way, the concept of Joy Bubbles makes me smile whenever I think of it. I have learnt some valuable lessons these last few months. I could have let the experiences make me bitter, distrustful and disillusioned with life. But I remember the exact moment when I decided not to let that happen. I remember sitting in a whorl of pain and betrayal, and recognizing that I could choose my attitude. Out of that time, the most powerful lessons I have learnt have been to do with happiness.  -- Pia, Single mom in South Africa
 I love to think of Joy as a series of bubbles. Joy is not something you naturally feel every day all day long. It is in the individual moments and of course you have to choose to find the joy in the challenging moments or you might just cry and want to give up. One of my best choices ever is to have hope that things will get better, that I will learn and be a better person for having faced and met my challenges. I have found a great deal of JOY in having hope! When things aren't the way I want them, when relationships - especially with my children - are strained, I delight in looking back on the many Joy Bubbles that I have had with them, and then I mentally watch as the light reflects off each bubble and fills my heart. I begin to feel lightened and not so burdened as I remember and renew my feelings of love for them. The Lord offers me a great deal of hope, and as the source of all light, He is what makes those bubbles sparkle and shimmer and look so beautiful! Each little Joy Bubble appears bringing with it a multitude of good feelings, fun times, services rendered, and I am happy.