Saying Goodbye

Death is not an easy thing to face - especially when it comes suddenly to someone who is still relatively young. This was the case this month as we learned of the passing of an uncle who was still in his 50's. Some of his children firmly believe and know where their father has gone and others are less certain. It was a very sad time for the family. As we gathered to remember him we were able to share laughs and tears that bring healing and comfort in this time of grief.

We even got a few family shots while we were there...

One of the pictures on display was of his parents. This was a picture that I've never seen before. I was so glad I had my camera handy to capture it.

Jacob and Anna Neitz

I guess death is a wake up call. There was lots of talk at the memorial service of forgiveness. Even after as the family visited  I heard several express regrets, wishing that they had taken the time to put their differences behind them and forgive so that they could have had a special family bond and the associated joy that comes with it. Now the onus is on every person there, to decided if the message of forgiveness is good enough to apply in to their own lives or if it should just apply to everybody else. That is a personal decision, but I know that the Lord eagerly waits and watches to see if hearts were softened enough to practice what was preached.

I am so grateful for the healing power of forgiveness. It has brought such extensive joy to my life that it is nearly impossible to describe. It is worth every effort and challenge that it takes to get there. And the blessings and joys that come with it are beyond anything of earthly value. Forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves, it frees us from bitterness, hatred, guilt and every thing that is depressing. It is liberating and wonderful. It would seem that if we love ourselves - we forgive others - then we can keep loving ourselves.